On Choosing

I believe that love is a choice. However, I cannot just simply choose.

Taking a move can be risky. Expressing genuine feelings of love is not easy. Making a commitment requires courage.

I’ve made many mistakes in my search for love, but I learned my lessons. If I don’t like someone, I will try to say ‘No’. Because I know it will waste my time and life as well as theirs, because if we’re in a relationship with someone who doesn’t make us happy, we’re both missing out on someone better. Not too long ago, I told someone who has been a great friend for almost a decade that I have a feeling for him. It did take a lot of courage. But I knew it was a way of finding out who and what I really like and want. Indeed, love comes to the brave ones. And I’m still learning to be brave, to take chances and risks.

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